hey guys
So tomorrow is my first day being a Senior in college. I'm nervous, I'm excited, and my teeth frickin hurt!
Yeah- this whole wisdom teeth removal thing sucks and not the ideal way to begin my school year!
Being a Senior means a lot... to me anyway... this semester is about getting what I need before entering the real world. Time to just jump in with both feet, unafraid.
I always feel like I have something to prove, someone to impress. I really hope I leave that behind.... I know I can do this, I have people who believe in me.... that's all I need.
My mom said something cool today. I asked her if it was crazy to take 3 Ballet classes this semester... and she said... "It's just 15 weeks, you can do anything for 15 weeks!" And i thought...yeah I can. I will push myself to the edge for 15 weeks and just go balls to the wall. It won't kill me... it's just 15 weeks.
I plan to make these 15 weeks pretty memorable... stay tuned ;-)
XOXO A
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Sunday, August 28, 2011
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Death to the Zero Sum
Being a girl is Musical Theatre basically sucks. It sucks because there are just so many of us who want the same things. And yes, everyone is special and has a unique gift to give, but generally speaking there are 500 girls out there right now who look and sound just like me.
This can be totally terrifying!!!! Not just professionally but personally as well. I live with 3 MT girls full time.... and most of my friends are in this business too. How is this possible? Can you really confide in someone and trust them when we are all desperate for the same jobs? Can you truly get total support? Will you ever feel confident that, when something great happens to you, your friends are really happy for you?
From experience, it's frickin hard. I am blessed to have so many incredibly talented people in my life. I am also so blessed to have amzing friends who i feel totally suuported by! ( I got soooo lucky) And I love all them. I am honestly, 100%, so happy for them with all of their accomplishments. But I'll admit it goes against my instincts to not be competitive. And this is when I'm still in school, and paying my rent isn't on the line!!!! HELP!
I know I'm not the only girl who feels this way so no judging!!!
Here's the key to overcoming this is..... KILL THE ZERO SUM!
zero-sum rule: In game theory and economic theory, a zero-sum game is a mathematical representation of a situation in which a participant's gain or loss is exactly balanced by the losses or gains of the other participant(s). If the total gains of the participants are added up, and the total losses are subtracted, they will sum to zero. (wiki definition)
example: if there are 10 apples.... we each have 5 of them..... then i get another one.... that means I have 6 and you now only have 4....
So here's what I realized recently and now has become a daily mantra. "Success is not a zero-sum game!"
If someone is becoming successful that does not take away from you in any way! There is room for everyone on Broadway!
So the next time your BFF gets a job, remember that having triple threat friends only makes you look more triple threat!
And the next time your boy's ex gets a fierce job, remember that it doesn't mean you can't get just as good of a job tomorrow!
This business is tough enough.... let's be there for each other ladies!
This can be totally terrifying!!!! Not just professionally but personally as well. I live with 3 MT girls full time.... and most of my friends are in this business too. How is this possible? Can you really confide in someone and trust them when we are all desperate for the same jobs? Can you truly get total support? Will you ever feel confident that, when something great happens to you, your friends are really happy for you?
From experience, it's frickin hard. I am blessed to have so many incredibly talented people in my life. I am also so blessed to have amzing friends who i feel totally suuported by! ( I got soooo lucky) And I love all them. I am honestly, 100%, so happy for them with all of their accomplishments. But I'll admit it goes against my instincts to not be competitive. And this is when I'm still in school, and paying my rent isn't on the line!!!! HELP!
I know I'm not the only girl who feels this way so no judging!!!
Here's the key to overcoming this is..... KILL THE ZERO SUM!
zero-sum rule: In game theory and economic theory, a zero-sum game is a mathematical representation of a situation in which a participant's gain or loss is exactly balanced by the losses or gains of the other participant(s). If the total gains of the participants are added up, and the total losses are subtracted, they will sum to zero. (wiki definition)
example: if there are 10 apples.... we each have 5 of them..... then i get another one.... that means I have 6 and you now only have 4....
So here's what I realized recently and now has become a daily mantra. "Success is not a zero-sum game!"
If someone is becoming successful that does not take away from you in any way! There is room for everyone on Broadway!
So the next time your BFF gets a job, remember that having triple threat friends only makes you look more triple threat!
And the next time your boy's ex gets a fierce job, remember that it doesn't mean you can't get just as good of a job tomorrow!
This business is tough enough.... let's be there for each other ladies!
xoxo
ATuesday, August 9, 2011
Here We Go
So here we go.... I now have a blog! Cool..... I think. Ya know.... this will actually be a great way for all my friends to keep up with me! Especially once I moved to the NYC. So yeah--- check up on me. Count on some funny stories, angsty venting, and all around craziness :)
xoxo A
xoxo A
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